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身弱官殺過旺為忌有多痛,我可太有發言權了！   大家好，做為一個官殺過旺為忌的人。我今天就來跟大家分享一下我們這類人的切膚之痛，再教大家幾招實用的生存指南。   官殺過旺的人除了睡著，時刻都處於緊崩（即將受死的剛毅）狀態，是很難放鬆下來的。   會持續性的精神壓力大，容易緊張、焦慮，也是強迫症、焦慮症、抑鬱症的重災區。我們這類人會經常性的自我懷疑，自我否定，性格往往會比較自卑的。因為自己性格上的特點也會導致別人不夠理解和尊重我們，也是比較容易被他人漠視的一類人群。   除此以外，官殺過旺為忌也會表現為實實在在物理上的傷害。比如意外，災禍，再比如被霸淩，被家暴，被體罰等等。   說了那麼久，我們現在就來認識一下“官殺”這位大佬。 官殺就是克制日主的存在。正官是陰陽調和的有情之克。像父母讓我們罰站，老師罰我們抄課文。七殺是陰對陰陽對陽的無情之克。像前面提到過的故意傷害 霸淩 家暴等等。其實東亞社會本身就是官殺過旺的。所以從小到大，人們普遍都受到了比較嚴重的官殺的影響。   但是不得不誇一下，官殺也是有優勢的！！！比如說認真 自律 高效 上進心強等等。只是當這種能量過重時就會導致失衡，自然更多的體現出官殺的負面效應。那麼在這種情況下我們如何最小化官殺帶來的傷害，最大化發揮官殺的優勢呢？   這一期我會從“命理學”和“修行修心”兩個不同方面給出一些建議，希望能對你有所幫助。   那我們先從命理學的方法說起：   第一種就是補印。 官殺生印，印可以卸掉官殺的力量又可以生身。是我與官殺之間的紐帶。“用印”就像在現實中遇到難題也會如有神助般的化險為夷。如果八字中缺印或印的狀態不太好時，那麼我們可以嘗試補印。給自己建立一個能量保護罩。比如冥想、獨處、睡覺、讀一些內容輕鬆的書。這些都屬於補印的範疇。印是升扶我們的力量，包括但不限於精神的力量，信仰的力量。通過多讀書可以跨越時空和優秀的人溝通和古人先賢溝通。逐步建立起自己內心的秩序，穩定自己的內核。當然您也可以直接找辰思去幫您選擇一個適合您的印章帶在身邊。   第二補比劫。  比劫是同我的力量，也是我們自己的能量。我們在文明精神的同時也要野蠻體魄。可以提高自己的身體素質，還有心理層面的抗擊打能力。就是所謂的“比劫扛官殺”。我們可以通過適量的運動，或者適度的和朋友聚會聊天去分散壓力。而且，我們還要多學習一些比劫那種無需他證的樂觀和自信。每天都給自己一些肯定和正向的回饋。讚美自己*͈ᴗ͈ˬᴗ͈ෆ   第三食傷制官殺。 其實我認為這是一種最直擊根本的方法。你可以養一只愛你的小動物（養育和陪伴本身就是很鬆弛，療愈的）。或者養點你喜歡的花花草草。也可以找到自己的興趣愛好，比如寫寫日記（有助於整理思緒，覺察自己。因為本來很多問題和困難都是處於混沌的狀態，你寫下來就會更加清晰），攝影，繪畫，設計（做手賬），做飯等等都可以。但是，食傷也是消耗日主的。所以要量力而行。   第四降低欲望。 我們想要佔有、想要控制的東西，都是會反過來控制我們的。這就是“財升官殺”。我並不反對人們為自己的興趣愛好買單，但是一定要量入為出。尤其是年輕人千萬不要超出自己的能力範圍負債去消費。如果因此導致官非或上了征信都是得不嘗失的。   好，那我們說完命理學上的建議。現在我要給大家3條針對官殺的修行 修心的方法。希望大家都能真的去實踐一下，以觀後效。   第一條傾聽內心的聲音，重視自己的感受。 官殺過旺的人往往因為要迎合外部評價標準，從而很容易失去自我。表現出來就是：非常在意別人的看法，別人說的就是對的，別人的決策就比我高明，別人對我的攻擊、否定，一定是我哪里做的不夠好，我得多反思自己。慕強，迷信上位者，迷信權威等等。這種就是妥妥的官殺克身的反應。更有甚者，他們完全沒有內在評價系統，沒有自我意志，跟著官殺一起欺負自己。他們會認為自己的感受是不值得被重視的。自己的想法也是可以輕易被否定。 所以你需要做的就是把能量拉回來，聚焦到自己的身上。看見自己，覺察自己。有一句話是“看見即療愈”，我們可以打破官殺的規則體系重塑自己。不要過於在意別人會怎麼看。別人怎麼看不重要。重要的是你自己的真實感受，真實想法。看見自己，覺察自己，允許自己（還有很多做不好的，還有很多不知道的，甚至還會有人性的陰暗面）全然的接納自己。這個過程其實是一個長期主義的練習，我們可以慢慢來。就算期間你還是產生了大量自我否定的念頭，看到他，允許他存在。不要評判他，也不要理會他。也可以用寫日記的方式整理我們雜亂的思緒，以便日後複盤。我們要意識到這些念頭僅僅是你腦子裏面的不良印記在奏效。釋放掉了就好了。這個練習大家隨時都可以用起來。   第二個降低自我要求。 官殺人的自我約束力和自驅力是相當強的。事業心、責任心、目標感都是很重的。但是，官殺過旺為忌就說明這個人能量值和血條厚度跟他要做的任務是不匹配的。（青銅非要去做鑽石的任務）。我們總是想跟行業內top去對標，把目標看得太重、太大。而實際精力不夠時，就會帶來嚴重的壓力和焦慮。 我們其實是完全可以降低一些遊戲的難度，隨時可以放棄原為以很重要但並不想做的事。這世界上有無數種遊戲，沒有哪一種是非玩不可的。原來我上學時候大家都在玩卷基點、保研。大家玩我也想玩。但是，後來我玩不下去了。我就不玩了。當我真正決定放棄時，我發現不玩也就不玩了，沒有什麼大不了的。我還有更多的精力去研究自己喜歡的傳統文化，命理。當我去排了那個人少的隊，卻發現她給我帶來了更多的驚喜。除此以外，我還建議官殺過旺人要給自己更多的時間和耐心，嘗試把一個大的目標拆解打散去完成。當別人一下子就可以跑1000米時，你就先要求自己練習跑100米，慢慢來。當你完成了這個小目標就會有成就感。一個正向的回饋有了，你就更能堅持下去了。反正距離和配速總是會提上去。   第三，認真你就輸了！學學食傷的樂觀。正如前文所說，帶著點兒遊戲的心態去生活，去體驗。建議試試"50%認真原則"：用一半心力全情投入，留一半清醒觀察全局。這樣既不會沉溺劇情，又能完整參與體驗。換種說法就是“因上努力，果上隨緣”。無所謂了…哈哈，認真可以，但別讓認真給綁架了。   好啦，我就想分享以上這麼多。還請各位好好學習+實踐。如果您也有官殺之下很好的生存方法，也請分享出來吧。我們共勉。祝大家每天都開心(◍•ᴗ•◍)

In the ninth period of Lihuo, how much role can academic qualifications play? Today, Chen Si will explain this issue from a metaphysical perspective. Let me first talk about its usefulness: We all know that the college entrance examination is like a thousand troops crossing a single-plank bridge, and the competition seems very fierce, but it is still a gamble on a "high-probability event." Because the employment rate of undergraduates is relatively higher than that of junior colleges or vocational colleges, it is easier to find jobs in 985 and 211 universities than in ordinary universities. But - but, is the social environment still like this today? We have all heard of the story of "carving a boat to look for the sword", right? The so-called "carving a boat to look for a sword" refers to the experience you summarized from the social phenomena encountered by your parents' generation when you were a child. Just like some elders live well because they married well, and some elders live well because they did well in exams, and then you can't help but copy their "path to success." However, what did the success of our predecessors rely on? It mainly depends on the social environment and historical background at that time. Do you think kids today can be the same as that generation? We all know that we are now in the 20-year "Lihuo Jiuyun". What about 20 years ago? It is the "Eight White Earth Luck" (2004-2023), which corresponds to the rise of real estate. Friends who are familiar with Chensi know that I studied architecture and graduated in 2009, so I can be said to have reaped the benefits of the last decade. But what about the kids studying architecture or related majors now? How to face the downturn in the entire industry after graduation? Just like car salesmen today, some people can’t attract customers even if they wear black stockings and dance to “The Pussycat Dolls”; but in the 1990s, car buyers had to treat the salesmen to a meal or even give bribes under the table before they could pick up the car. Do you think today’s salespeople are not working hard? Stop it, they are fighting very hard! Going back another 40 years, the "Seven Red Gold Luck" (1984-2003) corresponds to the 20 years of reform and opening up. The most typical example of someone who is driven by money to innovate is Wang Jianlin. He was born in 1954, the year of Jiawu, with the element of Guishui as his day element. He was weak and had many evil spirits. He started his own business in 1989, which was the beginning of his "Wuyin luck". His horoscope has a strong earth element and needs some wood. His fortune is good and it fits the "seal fortune" of the metal element. This is what I often say, "Heaven, Earth and Man" are all included - the original eight characters are at the "man" level, the fortune is at the "earth" level, and the era is at the "heaven" level. Times have changed now, but times are always changing. Are you still looking for a sword on a boat? It's useless! Don't expect the times to remain unchanged; that's not something you can control. The same pattern of "marrying well" can the era of free marriage and the era of arranged marriage be the same? If those born in the 1980s and even some of those born in the 1990s have not entered into marriage before, it will probably be difficult for them to do so in the future, not to mention those born in the 2000s. This has nothing to do with who said what; it is purely the choice of the times. Some people are destined to become the "price" of a certain era. Let’s talk about the college entrance examination: in an era of knowledge scarcity, academic qualifications are a halo; but in today’s information explosion, what is tested is cognitive ability. Times have changed. If parents and students continue to stick to the old ways and rely on past paths, it will only become more and more difficult. Take choosing majors as an example. Many parents still believe in "popular majors" and even spend tens of thousands of dollars to seek consultation from popular online agencies. To be honest, it would be better for me to help my child look at his talent through his horoscope instead of wasting this money. What are popular majors? To put it bluntly, it is something that developed countries have but China does not yet. For example, televisions in the 80s, telephones in the 90s, computers in 2000, the Internet in 2010, and AI now... But if you go abroad and find that "we have everything that others have", I'm sorry, the popular majors are gone! To put it more bluntly: being overly concerned about choosing a major just shows that the child doesn’t know what he or she wants to do or has no idea at all. Children with independent ideas no longer look at majors, but instead choose schools - schools that are highly competitive in the industry. Chen Si is a fortune teller, and he would like to say something mysterious: in any industry, if you cannot make it into the top 20%, you can only talk about survival, not development; but if you can make it into the top 20%, you are an expert. And those who can enter this circle rely not on academic qualifications but on talent! Don't believe it? A while ago, Beijing was hit by strong winds for several days. The first person to predict it was not the Meteorological Bureau or a Feng Shui master, but a sophomore student in the Department of Mathematics at Beijing Technology and Business University (not a 985 or 211 university). I have loved astronomy since I was young and I persisted in it. I persisted because I liked it and I liked it because I had talent - where did the talent come from? It’s determined by fate and given by the eight characters, and science cannot explain it! Let’s talk about academic qualifications: What is its real role? Is it ability? No, it's a threshold, a barrier that prevents outsiders from sharing the cake. In numerology, there is a distinction between "Bi Jian and Jie Cai": Bi Jian is a comrade-in-arms wearing the same pair of shorts, and Jie Cai is a rival who tries to snatch the cake, just like the Five Mountains Alliance and the Sun Moon Sect in "Swordsman". Why do alumni associations exist? Do you really think it's just about eating and drinking? No, it is to keep each other warm and exchange resources! It’s the same in any industry, the pie is only so big. The logic of the threshold is: "I can't finish the cake, but I can only let my own people eat it." Ivy League schools, Peking University and Tsinghua University, 985, 211...each label is a "gang". Take real estate as an example: the predecessors who entered the industry in the 1990s may have only graduated from a second-tier university, but when I joined the company in the early 2000s, my colleagues already had graduates from Imperial College London and Peking University and Tsinghua University; now in some units, even the front desk staff of some unpopular majors in 985 universities are graduates. Is it really necessary to be so curly? unnecessary! Many high-paying positions do not require a high level of education, but HR will not lower the threshold - because this touches on the interests of the group. Therefore, if society is like the martial arts world, academic qualifications are the sects and majors are the secret manuals of martial arts. It is easier to understand if we use "Heaven, Earth and Man" to express it: Life : Do you have talent? Are you good at studying? Luck : Even if you have talent, will you be able to answer the college entrance examination questions easily? How was your physical condition on that day? Feng Shui : Will the lucky days help you during the exams? Is the location of the examination room favorable? Which teacher graded the test paper? How is the other person feeling? These all affect the final score. A truly skilled fortune teller will not use the eight characters to frame one's life, but will plan ahead through the laws of "Heaven, Earth and Man". An expert will not just tell you the result, but will help you prepare at the turning point of the energy flow (such as two years before the end of the major fortune). Is the college entrance examination useful nowadays? I don’t jump to conclusions. However, in the next 20 years, the depreciation of academic qualifications will accelerate. If we continue to work hard in this way, the road will only become more difficult. But even so, the college entrance examination is still the fastest and most accurate channel for screening talents - those who can survive the third year of high school, with a little experience, can become a good brick for the Great Wall. Students from 985 and 211 may not be the smartest, but they are definitely the hardest working. Finally, Chensi wishes all students to achieve ideal results and perform exceptionally well; we also hope that parents all over the world will be more tolerant and expectant of their children. After all, most of the time, we have no control over what happens in the future.

introduction: In Chinese metaphysics, a person's name contains deep energy that affects personality, interpersonal relationships and life opportunities. Yi Studio specializes in nomenclature and helps you choose a name that matches your destiny. Main content: How the "energy vibration" of a name affects one's fortune The connection between name and Bazi (Four Pillars) - Why can a suitable name strengthen a horoscope? Real Case : How Changing Your Name Changed Your Life How to choose auspicious names for newborns, businesses, or even personal fortune-telling Conclusion: A name is not only an identity code, but also a manifestation of energy. If you want to have a name that complements your destiny, Chensi Yixueshe can guide you.

introduction: Feng shui is more than just about placing furniture - it's an ancient practice that improves health, career, and relationships by balancing the energy in your environment. Main content: The Basic Principles of Feng Shui and Their Importance Common Feng Shui Mistakes in Your Home Simple adjustments to improve energy flow (e.g., decluttering, adjusting the position of bed and desk) How Yi Studio combines traditional Feng Shui with modern aesthetics Conclusion: An energetically balanced space leads to a more harmonious life. By making small feng shui adjustments, you can create positive energy in your home and even in your life.

introduction: Bazi (also known as "Four Pillars of Destiny") is an ancient Chinese metaphysical system that can reveal a person's personality, career, interpersonal relationships and life direction. Yi Studio uses Bazi analysis to help you clarify your direction and make smarter life decisions. Main content: What is Bazi? How does it work? The Deeper Meaning of the Four Pillars (Year, Month, Day, Hour) How Bazi guides career direction, emotional choices and self-growth Real case: How Bazi analysis can change a person's destiny Conclusion: Interpreting the horoscope is like understanding the roadmap of your life. Whether you are confused or simply curious about your fate, Bazi can provide valuable inspiration.